… have sex with strangers, they mean.
The vast majority of my friends know what I do. I find it far easier to tell people the truth than to be careful of what I say all the time. Maybe it’s luck, or maybe I’m just bloody good at choosing friends in the first place, but I’ve never had a bad reaction to the news. What I do get, of course, is questions, and the one I get most is ‘What if you don’t fancy them?’
I was discussing this one post-bonk with a new gentleman last night. It’s difficult to put into words really but the closest I could come is that within about 5 minutes of meeting a new chap I’ve usually found something about him that’s attractive. Most people have something going for them, after all! I like meeting people, I like sex, I like men’s bodies in all their different shapes and sizes. Also, I’ve never been one for fancying the ‘norm’ – I never drooled over the same guys other women drool over. I’m the girl you’d hear saying ‘There’s just something about him’..
This article suggests a handy way to make yourself more attractive to your chosen target, though… 😉